Who ARE You?
One day I was sitting next to a guy who is a millionaire in euros and as I suck at small talk, I said:- Tell me your biggest secret!
He looked at me all confused, and after 10 seconds he replied:
- I masturbate every day.
…followed by a 2 seconds break, we both started laughing out loud. We ended up having an amazing conversation, during which he did tell me one of his biggest secrets for a successful life (which I won't tell you, I'm selfish like that). I will tell you that he is older than my father, a very wise man, and that in the end he thanked me and said he had a great time talking to me. The past 2 weeks have been life changing for me. I was out of my comfort zone for 10 straight days, attended 2 social events filled with amazing, super smart, successful entrepreneurs. I talked to people from more than 20 countries face to face, interacted like I never did before, and made a lot of friends. Most of these people did not brag to me about who they know, how much money they make or how important they are. They were all genuinely nice humble people, together in one place for one common goal: to grow the entrepreneurs communities world-wide…and they are not in it for money, but because they are passionate about it. I also talked to people who believe that being cocky is what makes them special, that because they know a lot of 'popular rich' people they are better than others [me]. Patronizing assholes, who repeat themselves in a louder voice just because they got a 'lol' reaction from someone or because they just think that they said some cool smart shit, even if the words they said are offensive to other people in the conversation [me]. People who think that if they know the whole work background of some famous person, or random (from my point of view) facts about how they could potentially use them for self-interest to become famous as well, makes them better than me who I don't know these things. Which type of people do you think I (or anyone else for that matter) respect more? I am a simple girl…I love doing basic things like eating cherries straight from the trees in my parents' backyard, or fighting to bring awareness to human rights, things that most likely seem lame to the second category of people I mentioned. I am driven by passion, I am impulsive and the best things that I do in life, from design to human rights to gardening, turn out the best only if I am enthusiastic about it. Cut off my enthusiasm and you'll get boring, inefficient results and reactions from me. I love being around positive energy people, who do the things they do because they love it and they can hold a conversation about small things in life. I hate hanging around negativists who think that life revolves around how much money you can make or who you know. I admit I won't know all the celebrities, who does what and how important they are..and that is because I couldn't care less about these things. I only care about what you learn from the people you hang out with, and how you grow as a human being due to the contacts you have. My point is that if you are in the first category, I will be your best friend and help you in any way I can. If you are in the second category, don't even bother talking to me, as I have no intention in helping you ascend on a social scale, just because I believe that people like you should just go fuck themselves and die (there goes my humanitarian side). Even if I would know things that would be cool to show off to you with, I'm over this shit since high-school, so I won't talk about them, and I will continue to let yourself look ridiculous in front of me…I will observe, hate you more, and evolve more towards being humble and nice, because world needs more people like the first category and I'd rather be part of that. I don't shut up because I am intimidated by you, but because I won't lower myself to your level of bragging and blowing your own horn. It might not make me rich in the long run, but it'll definitely make me a better human. I only want to know who you ARE, not who you know. ok? ok.There goes my monthly (or is it annual) rant about self-centered mother fuckers. Love,
Ancap.s. In case you don't know, here's the trivia fact of the day: 98% of men do masturbate for all of their lives, no matter how happy they are with their chosen one, or how hot and attractive these might be. It's just human nature, so if I'll ask you what's your biggest secret, don't answer that, as it's old news already. :)) Also, don't expect me to ask you what's your biggest secret, I rarely do it.




